Blissy and harassment to woman in videogames

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Yesterday yesterday he would have to have been a day of celebration. The Devue awards came out at the end of the light to reward those colleagues and industry who have worked hard throughout 2017 and have been able to move their message or product to others. However, the day was seriously blurred by a new scandal, a new controversy that ended harassment towards a companion of the industry, pulling by land - at least for me - the idea that as communicators and part of the Spanish press we are Giving steps to the front, getting rid of a toxicity that does not suit us or should represent us. The partner Marina, Alias ​​ Blissy , a journalist who uses his communicator post to try to move the female perspective to the world of videogames, he made a comment on a concrete scene of a certain game, showing his discomfort for the Message that was transmitted . Through there everything well, a person opinion, showing the disagreement of her of her without questioning the quality of the game or the work he represents . However, it was not until it the message of it began to acquire visibility when the problems came through a certain social network.

I open a small parenthesis and I share with those who read this text a kit kat to make it clear that my interest is not to reopen the controversy and I will not specify beyond what is necessary to avoid distractions in this opinion article and complaint. I simply intend to open a framework of reflection between those who, as disseminators, dedicate ourselves to report on videogames and popular culture , remarking our responsibility under this position since our words often influence us who read us.

When the harassment comes from the press

Yesterday, this partner received discrete and respectful messages, support comments, and also lack of respect and verbal attacks by videogame fans. Many of the reviews were discharged by seeing a woman who thinks about a series stiffly embedded in the nostalgia of many - and I repeat, without getting to question her at no time - something worrisome but launched from the tags of the hobby It is usually, unfortunately, frequent. However, the worst comes when these criticisms begin to emerge violently from a very different sector than the fan: Professional colleagues with communicator stalls in an online magazine intentionally launched harassment comments against your person .

I m not referring to those who did not understand her s message and disagreed respectfully. Nor to those who, understanding her position and criticism of her, did not agree with her. These people showed their differences from respect. Whom I mean is a concrete individual who has caused my most absolute rejection due to his disgusting and cavernia attitude , because being a communicator and partner has harassed another person and has turned to the baculum for Surfer in the industry, to press it, so that it shut up . The attitude of him, lacking empathy and full of hatred, has not been different from that of the bully who does Bullying to a classmate and waiting for him to return to school to remind him how cute he is. Not satisfied with this, then boasts of having done it .

These attitudes are the currency of daily change in social networks from the user level, and it is also in the most toxic channels of YouTube. The honor of a person and the emotional stability of him are not worth anything in a community where the pseudocelebrity evangelist has the absolute truth at the expense of denigrating the enemy, to the minority that thinks differently . After the change of direction of Spanish magazines as meristation , which has taken steps from giant in terms of content quality and has added new and great promises of journalism to their ranks, I thought that the Spanish videogame press were safe from Machismo , of the imposition of man about women and harassment in general towards neighbor. But after seeing what happened yesterday I can not but embarrass me from a profession that embraces the delivery of statuettes while looking to another part when a communicator harasses and seeks to harm a companion for the simple fact of opinion , forcing it to hide it again under a padlock while imposing it that she has no right to say. 20,000 followers to demonstrate to be a despicable person. Congratulations, companion, you disgust me .

Blissy did not attacked anyone, either the videogame of which she spoke

As journalists and communicators we must be aware and responsible for our words to be directed to an audience that reads us, listens to us and that it is influenced by what we say. We have to learn to respect the opinion of a partner, and also, worth redundancy, we must learn to learn. Learn empathy, from the perspective and concerns of the woman playing woman who is seen before a product that is still in a high percentage for and for men. When minorities show their complaint they make it to move forward, to be able to play and enjoy like the rest. Many times appealing to the context, a different sociocultural situation, does not justify or soften machismo. And pointing out the machismo is not much less throwing overboard the totality of the work. The partner Maribel Baena was held high and clear in his recent article about the popular series FRIENDS : You can, and you should criticize the machismo in series of past times without stopping to enjoy them, because we It makes aware of errors and problems that normalized but that were not natural. It is not fun to make a mockery of the homosexual collective because it continues to suffer in the classroom the harassment and the aggression of homophobia, nor is it fun that machismo continues to move stereotypes that the woman, the wife, must always be the princess to rescue , and when he rebels, it is portrayed as a woman with character or a marimachus. The companion Manu Delgado It has also been clear with the message of him: When a macho comment is noted in a work of fiction, the entire work is not being cast. Nor is it criticizing people who enjoy that work. The only thing that is attempted is to show that machismo is present in our culture .

It has recently been several the dissetters that have had to announce their withdrawal or complete their account to the most absolute privacy to avoid a persecution. Has passed with Blissy, recently with Miss Vivi - where some took advantage of a problem with a journalist of this same medium, Suzume Mizuno , to attack them both from different fronts - and also with other dissetters on popular culture They seek to transmit a message from their own prism. I consider a great loss that those women who have something to tell and something to defend in industries that do not end up giving them a warm welcome should go temporarily or definitely, because from the debate and reflection are contributing some interest with what you can or not To agree, but that contributes to a more diverse and just hobby. For all this harassment, it does not surprise me that then successful proposals arise and necessary as gaming ladies , small spaces of debate and talk where women can engage in conversations without the fear of being judged through the Hominem .